Whether you are freshly out of school and searching for your first career level job, are looking for a new employer due to lack of fit at your current workplace, or have been laid off from your job and need a new employment opportunity, the impact these scenarios can have on our mental health can be significant. Sometimes the pressures and stress involved in job searching can become as stressful as our current employment situation or lack of employment itself which can unfortunately lead some down a road of hopelessness, dread, lowered drive/motivation to do further job search and additional daily tasks, high anxiety and even panic, deteriorating personal relationships, and several other negative impacts on our lives and overall mental health. In my practice, I see at least a handful of clients each week that are experiencing one of the above-mentioned situations and a combination of the stressful life situations and mental health symptoms mentioned above. The good news is that such situations and experiences can be managed effectively and one can feel more mentally healthy, confident, and energetic when job searching. In this blog I will provide some tips for those who are going through a career transition, I hope you find them helpful! Time Management and ‘Shoulds’… One of the biggest concerns clients searching for work often express to me is the difficulty they experience with time management. You may think that someone who is out of work may have ‘all of the time in the world’ to job search or that someone who is motivated to move on from a current employer may have the energy and drive to make time for job searching and networking, but this is often not the case. Due to many factors, the energy and drive to job search is lower today for many compared to years ago when our lives, in general, were slower paced, less demanding and stressful (E.g., impact of inflation on income), and we were less inundated with constant stimulation of media and smart technology. I often find that clients set their ‘bar’ very high, very quickly, when starting their job search when it comes to how quickly they ‘should’ be applying, getting interviews, and securing a new position, how much time each day that they ‘should’ be spending job searching (E.g., Online, networking in-person applying, etc.), and how much they ‘should’ be sacrificing other life activities so they can job search. What is wrong with this strategy? The biggest issue with these strategies is what we call ‘shoulds’ in the field of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). When we ‘should ourselves’ we essentially self-shame, as if we are scolding and pointing a finger at ourselves for ‘not doing good enough’ or ‘not doing what we should be doing.’ The biggest problem with these thoughts is that they actually drain and demotivate us from doing things like effectively job searching in a healthy way! If you have in the past, or still do, [...]

Many people are now familiar with the concept of trauma, and just how broad those experiences can be. Medical trauma in particular, is one of the types of trauma that impacts many people and can present additional and unique health challenges. It can often be overlooked as an underlying cause of mental health concerns, and can manifest in diagnoses ranging from anxiety, depression, to PTSD. What is medical trauma? Medical trauma is defined as the psychological, emotional and physiological distress that is due to a negative health care encounter. It is broad in its definition and can result from a single event of feeling dismissed by a medical professional. Medical trauma can come from:  An invasive medical procedure, A diagnosis of a life altering illness, A medical error, A lack of communication with health care providers, A difficult birth experience. Medical trauma can happen even if the health care provider is not at fault. How medical trauma impacts an individual is deeply personal, and people will respond differently to similar events. One common element of trauma is the sense of fear, and lack of safety that people experience and can continue to feel long after the event. These emotions originate in the nervous system; the brain’s perception of threat activates the body’s response to danger. In the process of dealing with the traumatic experience, the nervous system becomes overworked, resulting in being either overstimulated (fight, flight), or shutting down (freeze). These body responses are ways in which our bodies are trying to regulate. With medical trauma, something unique is that the source of the fear and danger is internal-within the body-which makes it more challenging to manage. We can’t escape our own bodies- they are our home. When the body is the source of the pain and fear, we may want to disconnect from ourselves, which moves us away from healing. Another risk is developing avoidant behaviour, not wanting to seek medical help or treatment because of the fear. Developing avoidant behaviour is a common response to fear- but when we avoid taking care of our health, the consequences can be significant. In addition to the physical responses to medical trauma, including pain, lack of mobility, illness, digestive issues and a variety of other uncomfortable symptoms, there can be a whole host of psychological symptoms to manage. With the increased sense of fear often comes elevated anxiety, stress and depression. Symptoms of PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) can manifest. The following list are some common symptoms seen with medical trauma: Heightened anxiety, sadness, hopelessness, helplessness, anger, Avoidance, fear of medical settings or professionals, Emotional numbing, Exaggerated startle response, Intrusive thoughts, Flashbacks, nightmares, Thoughts of self harm, suicide. Because this kind of trauma can go unacknowledged or dismissed, a person can also experience “disenfranchised trauma”. Not having your experience acknowledged and not feeling considered can add to the negative feelings of frustration and powerlessness. It can also be that the individual believes they should “just get [...]

As a therapist, I often hear clients say, “I feel stuck,” “I don’t know how to deal with my emotions,” or “I keep repeating the same patterns in my relationships.” For those who feel overwhelmed by their emotions or disconnected from them entirely, Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) offers a powerful path toward healing and self-discovery. What is Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT)? EFT is a research-backed, experiential form of therapy that helps individuals understand, regulate, and transform their emotions. Rather than suppressing or avoiding feelings, EFT encourages clients to engage with their emotions in a way that fosters growth and healing. Emotions are not just reactions; they hold essential information about our needs, past experiences, and deepest desires. Through EFT, clients learn to work with their emotions rather than against them. Who Can Benefit from EFT? Emotion-Focused Therapy is especially effective for individuals who: Struggle with emotional regulation, often feeling overwhelmed or disconnected. Experience anxiety or depression rooted in unresolved emotional pain. Have difficulties in relationships, whether romantic, familial, or social. Are working through grief, trauma, or past experiences that continue to shape their present. Feel self-critical, ashamed, or “not good enough” and want to build self-compassion. EFT is particularly helpful for those who may have been conditioned to ignore or suppress emotions—whether due to cultural expectations, family dynamics, or past trauma. It provides a safe and structured space to explore emotions in a way that fosters resilience and emotional intelligence. How EFT Works in Therapy In EFT, emotions are viewed as adaptive signals that guide us toward healing when understood and processed correctly. During sessions, I guide clients through experiential exercises that help them access and transform emotions in real-time. Here are some of the core EFT techniques I love using in therapy: Emotion Awareness and Labeling: Many clients struggle to name what they’re feeling. We work on identifying and articulating emotions, moving beyond broad terms like “sad” or “angry” to a more nuanced understanding of what’s happening internally. Two-Chair Work: This is a powerful technique where a client engages in a dialogue with different parts of themselves (such as the inner critic, the wounded child, or the part that resists change). This allows for deep emotional processing and self-compassion. Reprocessing Emotional Memories: By revisiting past emotional experiences in a safe, structured way, clients can create new, adaptive emotional responses to old wounds. Accessing Primary vs. Secondary Emotions: Many people express secondary emotions (like frustration or withdrawal) instead of their core, primary emotions (such as sadness, fear, or loneliness). EFT helps uncover these deeper emotions, leading to authentic healing. Self-Compassion Practices: Learning to approach emotions with kindness rather than judgment is key. I often integrate self-compassion exercises to help clients develop a more nurturing inner dialogue. The Transformative Power of EFT Clients often describe EFT as a deeply moving and freeing experience. By processing emotions instead of avoiding them, they begin to feel more connected to themselves and others. Some of the most profound shifts I witness [...]

Navigating the Mind-Gut Connection: The Role of Therapy in Supporting Clients with Bowel Disease Living with a chronic bowel disease—such as Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD), Crohn’s disease, or ulcerative colitis—extends far beyond physical symptoms. The daily realities of these conditions can lead to anxiety, depression, and deep emotional distress. As a therapist with a holistic and informed approach, I work closely with clients to help them navigate the complex relationship between mental health and gut health, fostering resilience, self-compassion, and improved quality of life. A Holistic Approach to Mental Health and Bowel Disease The gut-brain connection is a critical factor in understanding and managing chronic bowel conditions. Stress, trauma, and unresolved emotional experiences can exacerbate symptoms, while ongoing gastrointestinal distress can heighten anxiety and depressive symptoms—a cycle that can feel impossible to break. My approach integrates various therapeutic modalities tailored to each client’s needs, including: Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Identifying and reshaping negative thought patterns that contribute to stress and symptom flare-ups. Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR): Helping clients regulate their nervous system to minimize gut-related distress. Somatic Awareness and Breathwork: Encouraging clients to tune into their bodies and release tension stored in the gut. Narrative Therapy: Empowering clients to rewrite their illness story, reclaiming agency over their bodies and lives. Self-Compassion Practices: Reducing the shame and frustration that often accompany chronic illness. The Emotional Impact of Bowel Disease Beyond physical discomfort, chronic bowel diseases carry a heavy emotional and psychological toll. Many clients experience: Social Isolation: Fear of urgency, accidents, or dietary restrictions may lead to avoiding social events. Body Image Struggles: Weight fluctuations, bloating, and medical interventions can alter body perception. Health Anxiety and Medical Trauma: Frequent medical tests, hospitalizations, and unpredictable symptoms often create heightened vigilance and distress. Grief and Loss: Many individuals grieve the loss of their “healthy self” and struggle with adjusting to a new normal. Through therapy, clients find a safe space to process these challenges and cultivate emotional resilience. Supporting Caregivers and Loved Ones Family members and caregivers of individuals with bowel disease also need support. The stress of witnessing a loved one’s struggles, navigating dietary restrictions, and managing unpredictable symptoms can lead to burnout and emotional exhaustion. Therapy can help caregivers by: Providing psychoeducation on the mind-gut connection and chronic illness. Offering coping strategies to manage stress and prevent compassion fatigue. Facilitating healthy communication within families to foster understanding and support. Encouraging self-care practices so caregivers can maintain their own well-being. The Transformative Impact of Therapy Clients who engage in therapy often experience profound shifts—not just in their mental health, but in their physical well-being as well. By addressing underlying emotional wounds, learning to regulate stress, and building self-empowerment, many find that their symptoms become more manageable and their overall quality of life improves. As a therapist, my goal is to create a compassionate, informed, and individualized space where clients and their loved ones can explore the emotional layers of chronic illness, find hope, and [...]

What Is A Concussion? A concussion is a trauma to the brain as a result of direct (blow to the head) or indirect (whiplash) force to the brain.  The brain sits inside of our skull, surrounded by fluid that is designed to give it space to move ever so slightly. When a force impacts the head or causes it to move in a certain direction rapidly, the brain can “slosh” inside the skull and bump into the hard bone.  This is the trauma that the brain can experience that causes a concussion.  Think of it like a bruise to the brain. In the immediate aftermath of a concussion, blood flow to the brain declines, preventing important energy molecules in the form of glucose from reaching your brain.  This creates an energy crisis in the brain which is why fatigue is a primary symptom people experience following an impact. If you, or your family are involved in sports, it is very likely that you know someone who has suffered from a concussion. Where Else Can A Concussion Occur? When we think of concussions, we often think of them happening in sports, but there are other places a concussion can occur Car Accidents Slips/Falls Work related injuries We all know that a concussion is not a good thing and we try to make sports and work as safe as possible to prevent these or other types of injuries.  But sometimes it can still happen and it is always best to know what to do if you or someone you know has suffered a concussion. What To Do If You Think You Have A Concussion? If you or someone you know has a suspected concussion, it is important to give them immediate medical attention so that more severe consequences of brain injuries can be ruled out. It is also important to stop play or work until you can receive medical attention, as another impact to the brain immediately following the first, can be detrimental. In certain cases, bleeds can develop in the brain, leading to much more severe problems.  This can be ruled out by a trained professional, and may require a head scan at the hospital. Typically it is recommended that immediately after a concussion, the person should rest, stop all screen use and lie down in a dark room.  While these things can be important, some light cardio activity can actually help with recovery. It is still important to stop any activity that could involve the risk of second impact, but light activity as tolerated is good to incorporate into a recovery program. It is important to see a qualified professional for specific advice, as each person and their experience with concussion will be unique.  Some are able to resume activities sooner, while others may need longer, depending on the severity of the impact. After seeing your family doctor, or a physician in an emergency room, a Chiropractor or Physiotherapist should be your next stop for [...]

Why do we Need Sleep? Sleep helps us to restore not only our physical bodies but our brains as well. We need the right amount and quality of sleep for sleep to be effective. These sleep requirements are different for everyone. It is thought that good quality sleep means that that person’s body has spent enough time in each stage of sleep. Poor sleep may result in: Fatigue, Sleepiness, Poor concentration, Memory challenges, Mood changes such as irritability. All of the symptoms above often will result in poor mental health. Anxiety, depression and even suicidal thoughts can be affected by poor sleep. Symptoms of mental health challenges are often exacerbated too. Sleep Hygiene Start by recording the time you go to bed and how long it takes you to fall asleep and the time you wake up and get out of bed in a sleep journal. Be consistent with your schedule ie got bed and wake up at the same time each day Set a thirty minute limit to fall asleep and get up in the morning Establish a bed time routine Limit blue screen time before bed Use your bed for sleeping and sex only Monitor room temperature Limit light in your bedroom when sleeping Avoid caffeine and alcohol before bed Exercise regularly Avoid napes during the day If you are struggling with your sleep, see your family doctor and consider reaching out to a mental health professional for support. Resources https://pa-foundation.org/wp-content/uploads/NSF-Sleep-Diary.pdf https://www.anxietycanada.com/sites/default/files/SleepHygiene.pdf This content was provided by RSW Izzy Lewis. Izzy provides individual support to adults, for more information about Izzy, check out our team page https://brantmentalhealth.com/meet-our-team/

As a Chiropractor, I see some of my patients struggling with sleep because they are in pain and cannot get comfortable at night.  Sometimes their pain also wakes them up at night. The body needs rest so that it can heal and stay focused during the day.  Lack of sleep can lead to brain fog, injuries at work, and poor mental health.  In this article we will discuss things you can do to ensure you get a good night's sleep. Check your pillow A good quality, supportive pillow can be one of the easiest and least expensive ways to increase the quality of your sleep. A pillow needs to be supportive for the neck, especially for those who sleep on their side.  If you sleep on your back, the pillow should be quite thin as a thicker pillow can cause the neck to flex at night, placing strain on the muscles and joints. Your pillow should be replaced at least every 1 - 2 years.  One of the best pillows for a good night's sleep is the Endy pillow.  It offers proper support as well as the ability to adjust the height of the pillow. Check your mattress A good mattress can also improve your sleep, however this option is much more expensive and not always necessary.  A mattress typically lasts 10 years or less. It can also be time to replace it if you notice obvious depressions in the mattress where you lie at night.  This is a sign that the mattress has lost its support and that it might be time for a new one. When shopping for a new mattress look for something that is firm but comfortable, this will offer your spine proper support while you sleep and help with any discomfort you might be experiencing in the morning or at night. Don't sleep on your stomach It is always best to sleep on either your side or back.  When you sleep on your stomach, your head has to turn to one side, placing tremendous strain on your neck.  It can also affect your low back, because when you sleep on your stomach, your low back has to extend slightly, placing pressure on the joints of your spine. A neutral spine position where your neck is inline with your spine is optimal for sleep.  This position does not place any pressure or strain on the structures of your spine.  Although this is ideal, changing sleep habits and positions can be quite difficult as our bodies have gotten used to poor sleep postures.  If this is the case, keep trying, your body should get used to it eventually. Side sleepers should use a pillow between the knees If you sleep on your side, it is important to avoid twisting your spine.  This can be avoided by placing a pillow between your knees and keeping them slightly bent in front of you.  A small pillow is all you need as this will go [...]

Along with exercise, food and sleep are two of the most important things that can influence how our body functions on a day to day basis. When we deprive ourselves of good sleep or don’t fuel our body with good foods, we will soon feel the effects, along with setting our body up for future issues, aches and pains. How can we eat for a better sleep? Timing is everything Begin your day with healthy, nourishing foods that will fuel your body for the day to come. This will include moderate amounts of protein, healthy fats and a mix of colourful vegetables and fruit. Eat supper several hours before bed and refrain from eating too much after that. If you want something, a cup of herbal tea or a handful of nuts will set you up for a good night’s sleep. Blood Sugar Balance To go along side #1, eating protein, healthy fats and fibre throughout the day will help control blood sugar, which will promote a good night’s sleep and will help avoid waking up in the early morning hours. Is anxiety or worry causing you to wake up during the night or not allow you to get to sleep? Along with good sleep routines, what type of foods might be negatively affecting your sleep or what foods can be included in your diet to help alleviate stress, anxiety and worry? This may vary from person to person but avoiding sweets is a good place to start. When worrying about weight gain or health issues, poor sleep can have a major impact on this as well. So solving the issues you have with sleep through good nutrition can also help alleviate other issues as well. In conclusion: Good nutrition can lead to a good night’s sleep and a good night’s sleep can help you control blood sugar and cravings, which will help you to keep your nutrition on track. For more information about how working with a nutritionist can help you, contact our office at 519.751.0728 or email pathwaystohopebrant@gmail.com and set up a free consultation with Tammy!

Not everyone is looking forward to Valentine’s Day, especially if this will be their first Valentine’s Day after the loss of their spouse, or separation. Registered Social Worker, Kunle, shares some tips for those dealing with a different Valentine’s Day this year. Feel It, Don’t Fight It: Acknowledge your emotions without judgment, whether it's sadness, grief, anger, or even relief. All feelings are valid. Focus on What you Have Control Over: Plan meaningful activities. You can watch your favorite movies, cook a special meal, or enjoy a nature walk. Surround Yourself with Love: Spend time with friends or family who uplift you. Consider a group dinner or a heartwarming phone call with someone you care about. Prioritize Self-Care: Treat yourself with kindness. Go biking, book a spa session, try a new hobby, or simply rest without guilt. Reflect & Release: Talk to a therapist, write in a journal or pen a letter (even one you won’t send) to process your emotions and release lingering thoughts. Spread Love: Shift the focus outward by volunteering, donating, or surprising someone with an act of kindness. Opt-Out Without Guilt: Valentine’s Day is just another date on the calendar. Skip the flowers and candy if that feels better—your peace matters most. Don't Compare: Social media is not real, don't compare yourself unfairly with other people celebrating romantic relationships lavishly on social media. You matter, and your life is meaningful with or without that. Identify things in your life that you are grateful for. We hope you found this helpful, if you would like to connect with one of the therapists on our team, reach out to us at 519.302.2300 or email reception@brantmentalhealth.com

Winter has arrived, and with the holiday season now behind us, we’re left with the quiet, still cold that defines this time of year. It’s a season for reflection, rest, and healing, as well as a time to plan and prepare for the new growth that will come with the thawing of spring. As the world outside slows down, there’s an opportunity to slow our pace as well and focus on the things that matter most. One powerful method of fostering reflection, connection, and growth is through the art of storytelling—a tradition that has been mastered by Indigenous peoples over hundreds of years. Storytelling has long played a critical role in Indigenous cultures, serving not only as a way to entertain but also as a tool for teaching, preserving history, and imparting wisdom. What does storytelling achieve?  Through oral traditions, stories pass down: Vital lessons, Moral values, Ways of being, They also help to shape the worldviews and behaviors of individuals across generations. These stories are known to have lasting impacts on the minds of both youth and adults, offering wisdom that can guide them throughout their lives. In many Indigenous cultures, storytelling is not just an activity—it’s a way of being, a method of learning, and a form of connection. How to incorporate storytelling into your family: In today’s fast-paced world, it can sometimes be easy to overlook the power of storytelling. When we think of storytelling in Western culture, we might first think of bedtime stories, picture books, or novels. While these are wonderful forms of storytelling, they can also feel like a chore for busy families, especially during the months when schedules are packed with activities and commitments. The good news is that storytelling doesn’t always have to be as structured as reading from a book. In fact, some of the most meaningful storytelling can come from sharing your own personal experiences with your children.   Some tips for families: Talk about moments in your life where you’ve grown, learned, or overcome challenges to offer valuable lessons. Stories don’t have to be elaborate or grand; they can be simple, everyday experiences that have shaped you. When you tell your children these stories, you invite them to reflect on their own lives and think critically about the lessons they can learn from your experiences. These conversations can prompt deep thinking, nurture moral values, and help children develop emotional intelligence—skills they will carry with them throughout their lives. Final thoughts: Tell your stories! Tell them over and over again—until your children know them by heart, and perhaps even finish them for you! At first, they may roll their eyes or seem disinterested, but as they grow, they will remember your stories, and with each retelling, they will take away new insights and lessons. These stories become part of their mental and emotional toolkit, shaping their identities and their ways of understanding the world. If you’re not comfortable sharing personal stories or if you want [...]